i would summarise your sentiments thus.......
Women's carnal desires.....good, empowering, virtuous, she can chase male wealth or male beauty with equanimity, she can make or break any promise she wishes, and if she lived in Vichy Occupied France and chose an invader soldier ? who cares, you go girl.
Men's carnal desires........harassment, wrong, bad, patriarchy, nasty power-politics, keep your head down mate and know your place, and only loser men choose to import brides from the Third World while those women themselves are victims....etc etc...
Liberal Ideology. Charming isn't it ?
Could you have chosen a worse example?
They were literally tortured, humiliated and vilified for life.

Meanwhile, Men who had relationships with enemy women were tolerated or even celebrated.
