What women really want.....?

[eaglesdare]

Who came first...the man or the woman? 🤔

 

[Spindle]

Is Spindle taking a 'pasting'? I doubt it, but I wasn't that into the argument if I'm honest, I just saw that particular post and reacted to it.

No I'm not.

And he's failed to look around him to view his 99% male constructed surroundings and apparatus whilst telling me that women are more important than men.

I see them as vital, just not at many of the more natural male environments that they've convinced themselves that they need to be in charge of.

I don't see outrage over too many men on the construction sites.

 

[Spindle]

Yes, the main non-work related thing I am dealing with in real life (apart from fretting about Leipzig tickets) is the violent, domestic abuse of my wife's friend by her male partner (a West Ham fan, if its relevant).

What do women really want?
A lot of them just want a safe refuge. Some men too of course.

Really?

No, they seek drama, and there's biological reasons why, not that you'd listen so I won't explain.

Your wife's friend no doubts won't just leave the bloke, and she's a joy to be around too. Depp Vs Heard.

 

[Stirlingsays]

No I'm not.

And he's failed to look around him to view his 99% male constructed surroundings and apparatus whilst telling me that women are more important than men.

I see them as vital, just not at many of the more natural male environments that they've convinced themselves that they need to be in charge of.

I don't see outrage over too many men on the construction sites.

Sounds pretty sensible to me.

 

[Stirlingsays]

Who came first...the man or the woman? 🤔

If the guy's asleep first we have the answer!

 

[Stirlingsays]

I seriously doubt we would get on. I wouldn't introduce someone like that to any female friends or family for a start.

As for the politics, I'd put it closer to 40%. He spouts propagandised, simplistic nonsense on Ukraine, Iran, Gaza and other subjects I have probably forgotten.
There are not many on here that fall below 40%, except Wisbech Eagle of course - holding steady at 0%.

Plus - I wouldn't have said any of these subjects are minor - quite the opposite.
Our ability, as individuals, to influence them is minor, but we are all part of a society and our thoughts and actions contribute to the direction it goes in.

I also have some policy differences with Spindle on Ukraine and the EU, but so what, no one agrees on everything.

I say, remember the real people who hate both of you...and it's real hate for some of them...and while it's cool to argue over differences remember that some of these people would happily see you ruined if they could do it, they wouldn't think twice and it would make their day.

I think Polanski was musing just the other day in some discussion as to whether it would be justifiable to kill the 'far right'.....he actually brought it up.

I say, it's alright not to get on, but that you never really have real enemies on the right just ones you create.

I say ultimately face outward not inward.

 

[McAhuna]

I think this says it all. To you men just aren't important.

Megafeminist

LoL

Refusing to acknowledge the labour and sacrifice of your own Mother. This is textbook psychosis.

Obviously men are important, I have never suggested otherwise.

But to insinuate that men have a comparable role in the process of child-birth is absolutely mental.

 

[Stirlingsays]

I looked it up again about Polanski musing on killing the 'far right'. I think it's fair to say that while that's one interpretation of what he said he could also have been saying something like camps or deporting or some other way of excluding people from society (not that I can think of many others).

This is the quote from him:

'Before we go into complete utopia, which I'm totally there for, there are people though, who would identify as Right-wing, or indeed even far-Right. And no matter what humanity or community we put them in, they are set on destroying or pushing this toxicity. Do we think we can change their minds? Or is it a case of building a society that doesn't include them?'

 

[beak]

Back on topic, another recent case of a woman killed by an ex-partner: Bristol explosion: Jo Shaw died after ex Ryan Kelly 'forced way into house'

It remains true that a woman killed in the UK is most likely to be killed by a partner or ex partner.

Especially solicitors.

 

[CPFCSaturn]

No I'm not.

And he's failed to look around him to view his 99% male constructed surroundings and apparatus whilst telling me that women are more important than men.

I see them as vital, just not at many of the more natural male environments that they've convinced themselves that they need to be in charge of.

I don't see outrage over too many men on the construction sites.

You’ve taken such a pasting that matey has come along to try and peace-keep for you 🤣

Oh and the bit in bold… never said anything close to that. You keep rallying against the man in your head though.

 

[CPFCSaturn]

Really?

No, they seek drama, and there's biological reasons why, not that you'd listen so I won't explain.

Your wife's friend no doubts won't just leave the bloke, and she's a joy to be around too. Depp Vs Heard.

Imagine this being your response to hearing a women is being violently abused in her own home.

 

[McAhuna]

I also have some policy differences with Spindle on Ukraine and the EU, but so what, no one agrees on everything.

I say, remember the real people who hate both of you...and it's real hate for some of them...and while it's cool to argue over differences remember that some of these people would happily see you ruined if they could do it, they wouldn't think twice and it would make their day.

I think Polanski was musing just the other day in some discussion as to whether it would be justifiable to kill the 'far right'.....he actually brought it up.

I say, it's alright not to get on, but that you never really have real enemies on the right just ones you create.

I say ultimately face outward not inward.

Bit binary.

Bullies, abusers of all shapes, genders and colours are my enemies. The ISIS terrorist targeting Yazidi women is my enemy. The IDF sniper targeting civilians in Gaza is also my enemy. The Big Pharma profiteering scum persuading children to be mutilated are my enemy.

Starmer, Polanski, Boris and Farage will all ignore at least two of these. They would also all willingly send our children to die in a Donbass trench. f*** them all.

Women who abuse men are my enemy. Men who abuse women are also my enemy.
Women who hate 'men' are as much to blame as men who hate 'women'. Simplistic morons.

Who is not my enemy? Most women are not my enemy. Not the drunk girls on a night out, not the instagram and fashion obsessed girl over the road, not the nurse who works night-shifts. That's the difference between me and one or two on here, and its a big difference.

 

[McAhuna]

I looked it up again about Polanski musing on killing the 'far right'. I think it's fair to say that while that's one interpretation of what he said he could also have been saying something like camps or deporting or some other way of excluding people from society (not that I can think of many others).

This is the quote from him:

'Before we go into complete utopia, which I'm totally there for, there are people though, who would identify as Right-wing, or indeed even far-Right. And no matter what humanity or community we put them in, they are set on destroying or pushing this toxicity. Do we think we can change their minds? Or is it a case of building a society that doesn't include them?'

Not defending Polanski (David Paulden) because he is clearly an absolute div.

But don't forget that our grandfathers did actually kill the far-right, and British society has more or less openly celebrated it for the last 80 years.
Who is worse - Bomber Harris or David Paulden?

The problem is definitions. What David is defining as 'far right' now includes family values and what 100% of people believed in in 1950.
Back on topic, Polanski also hates women. Polanski hates the women who want to feel safe in their own bathrooms, and in their own communities. He is content to see women forcibly covered from head to toe. He hates women who speak out.
In his own way, Polanski is also a misogynist. Perhaps him and Spindle should have a pint together, and leave me the f*** out of it.

 

[Stirlingsays]

Not defending Polanski (David Paulden) because he is clearly an absolute div.

But don't forget that our grandfathers did actually kill the far-right, and British society has more or less openly celebrated it for the last 80 years.
Who is worse - Bomber Harris or David Paulden?

The problem is definitions. What David is defining as 'far right' now includes family values and what 100% of people believed in in 1950.
Back on topic, Polanski also hates women. Polanski hates the women who want to feel safe in their own bathrooms, and in their own communities. He is content to see women forcibly covered from head to toe. He hates women who speak out.
In his own way, Polanski is also a misogynist. Perhaps him and Spindle should have a pint together, and leave me the f*** out of it.

I'd agree with you on a lot of that, though I think the misogynist term is over-used, it's become like the racism term.

The problem certainly is definitions, as with your previous post referring to bullies and abusers, who is and who isn't and that always depends upon which lens we are viewing things though.

I think a difference between you and me is that, while we probably agree on most of those positions I'm not willing to make enemies on the right over it. You have strongly held universalist positions on humanitarian grounds and I can respect that and also hold them to a degree.

However, my personal understanding is that we are under a more present threat on this collection of isles we are standing on and that's more important to our futures than conflicts between Jews and Arabs or exactly to what extent someone thinks feminism damaged society. The threat over here will have a much more direct and real impact on your life, not an idealogical conviction about what should happen overseas .

I'm not saying we shouldn't argue over this and that.....I'm only saying that there should be a line over which we don't go. The more the right fragments the weaker we are and we need to patch over differences for self preservation not do the work of those who really hate you.

The opposite of Farage throwing out Lowe....the broad church.

Perhaps you don't value unity on the right and see yourself apart from this need. If so, ok, but I thought it worth saying.

 

[eaglesdare]

Wasn't it a woman's (Eves) fault that we all got kicked out of the garden of eden? 🤷🏻‍♂️

 

[Stirlingsays]

You’ve taken such a pasting that matey has come along to try and peace-keep for you 🤣

Oh and the bit in bold… never said anything close to that. You keep rallying against the man in your head though.

No, that wasn't the reason as I've made clear.

I've liked Spindle's post on feminism.....I think they are mostly arguing past each other out of dislike.

 

[Stirlingsays]

Wasn't it a woman's (Eves) fault that we all got kicked out of the garden of eden? 🤷🏻‍♂️

There's a lot in that story that runs true for dynamics between male and female. Human nature in general.

As with John the Baptist and Salome.