Unless and until you are able to discern truth from fiction you will not be able to understand how flawed your attitude is.
A 12 week old foetus is not an unborn child. It is a 12 week old foetus.
That’s not to, in any way, denigrate the emotional attachment and excitement that prospective parents can feel. Those emotions and excitement not being felt by all prospective parents though.
Abortion is always awful. It should be avoided whenever possible. Sometimes though least worse options must be taken, in many circumstances in life. This being one of them.
I will give you a dilemma to consider. If not at the point of viability, or for a 12 week foetus, where is the cut off point?
Someone who has had a successful IVF treatment will usually have several embryos in frozen storage as backup, should the first attempt fail. Should she be expected to have each implanted, or, in your opinion is it morally ok for them to be destroyed?