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Rivals, Derbies & Palace

tonypeers5

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As there's been more discussions about this following the Millwall draw, so I thought I'd start a discussion around rivalries. I find it an interesting topic to talk about because due to our continued, sustained PL status for over a decade and it means we've gained an enlarged new following which has spread globally. I remember the early 2000s when we were in the Championship and it was hard to believe that 'South London is ours'.

Many have their own opinions on who we have rivalries with & who we don't. There's the 2 obvious ones in Brighton & Millwall, which will always been there. Then there's a few minor ones which have been based on a small series of heated matches over a few seasons, but the key to new rivalries IMO is regular matches with some heated exchanges or controversial events.

When I was younger, I thought the Brighton rivalry was odd as we weren't near them geographically & we never played them (as they were in a lower division). However, the Brighton rivalry has reignited in the modern era (last 15-20 years) because of both teams being in the PL (and the battle to get into the league), whereas the Millwall one has fizzled out somewhat. It's mainly geography that fuels any animosity with Millwall. Millwall will always see West Ham as their 'main rivals' in the same way as we see Brighton as ours. The fact that we don't really play Millwall regularly anymore has probably led to Palace fans not really caring about them as much. Certainly newer fans won't have that same dislike for them as older fans.

I'd say there are definitely other teams that have been short term rivals of which we have heated matches against that I would have disliked more than Millwall at the time. Watford is a prime example due to their hatred of Wilf, but since Wilf has left and Watford got relegated, I'm sure neither team cares anymore. Charlton are another team I've always disliked, as their fans have tried to claim that they are the main team in South London (which is laughable), but again, as we don't play them anymore, any heat has probably fizzled out.

Oddly enough, Palace is not a team most fans I speak to dislike. When I moved to Essex a few years ago, I've found most fans are Spurs/Arsenal/West Ham and nearly all say they actually have a soft spot for Palace. We don't really threaten the top teams for trophies or European places. Many comment on us having a great atmosphere in an 'old school' ground and we always seem to have a few exciting players. We don't really have many geographical derbies with local teams as all the PL teams in London have other teams they have history and beef with.

I've found there's a few teams in PL like us in this position like Bournemouth & Brentford.

What are other member's thoughts on this? Would be great to hear from fans from outside the UK's opinions on their experiences from other team's fans.
 
To be honest I go with the flow now where Brighton are concerned, but I haven’t really hated them since I was a youngster when it was all kicking off, I obviously hated Mullery and the likes of Brian Horton, Peter Ward and Steve foster with a passion. I went to the notorious Boxing Day game of 79 and watched Horton stamp on Peter Nicholas’s head right in front of us and the end result ruined my Christmas.
They also beat us 0-3 at selhurst in 81 when we were doomed to the drop and I really did hate them. But really since then it’s just the done thing to hate Brighton and I’ve grown out of it since the 80’s really. I’ve never had weed fans at work or even know any of their fans.

But I’ve always known loads of Millwall and Charlton fans all through my life because of where I grew up and lived and even now, so the banter and the dislike is much more real and not just a distant memory from my youth.

That’s why it does make me smile with the Brighton thing when you hear the young fans singing “and we will fight forever more because of boxing day” they weren’t even born in 79, so how does that work?? 🤣🤣
 
My view on rivalries is that unless its a specific location related rivalry (which tend to stick) other rivalries which stem from individuals do come and go.

I developed a dislike for Everton when Lampard was in charge there mainly based around his rejection of a chance to manage us (which may or may not be true) and his shocking bad loser attitude after that 4-0 cup defeat. However recently I had some sympathy for them when Textor was giving it large about the takeover.

Similarly I dislike Man Utd for the arrogance their fans display when we beat them and their assumption that all our players would join them in a heartbeat and we should be grateful they sign them.

My nephew is a diehard Millwall supporter and he absolutely hates us and can't understand why I don't hate them. Having said that some of their fans have said some quite spiteful things about the upcoming game and 'sorting out' Esse so maybe I will grow to hate them!
 
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My nephew is a diehard Millwall supporter and he absolutely hates us and can't understand why I don't hate them. Having said that some of their fans have said some quite spiteful things about the upcoming game and 'sorting out' Esse so maybe I will grow to hate them!
No way should our fans dig out Esse. He signed a long term contract last summer meaning we got a nice lump for him which we’ve been able to reinvest in the squad. He knew he would be on his way but I believe that was his little ‘thank you’ to the club who nurtured him from the age of 9.

He could’ve wound his contract down and gone for nothing this summer or peanuts in the window just gone. He’s an absolutely blinding lad with an excellent attitude and a lot of integrity. I won’t hear a bad word against him.

Yes, in a perfect world he wouldn’t have gone to one of our main rivals, but I can see why he did. The move ticks all the boxes for him. Anyway, sorry to take the thread off topic but just wanted to set the record straight. Most Millwall I know feel the same way.
 
Some of the animosity, I reckon, can be explained as displaced, inverted class snobbery. Read Rod Liddle (a diehard Millwall fan), for example - he genuinely hates Palace because he thinks we are prissy and superficial, in contrast with Millwall's earthy, true prole status. Which, of course, is precisely what Palace think about Brighton (soft, effete, bourgeois).
You also find similar class prejudice in divisions within clubs (e.g. in disparaging comments about 'the prawn sandwich brigade'). The "We're the Arfur"/"We're the Olmesdale" exchange is an expression of class solidarity between 'salt-of-the earth' supporters, excluding the 'posh' seats and the family enclosure (nobody chants "We're the main stand" or even "We're the Whitehorse")
 
I can't get too worked up about so called rivalries. Too long in the tooth I guess.

However, there are teams to which I take a strong dislike. More of a personal thing really. I used to spit venom whenever we played Watford when they had a bloke called Hughes playing for them. My hackles rise when I see Everton, so no doubt the air will be blue in the vicinity of my armchair tomorrow. Arsenal have a similar effect on me and it's mostly down to feigning injury and gamesmanship.
 
 
As there's been more discussions about this following the Millwall draw, so I thought I'd start a discussion around rivalries. I find it an interesting topic to talk about because due to our continued, sustained PL status for over a decade and it means we've gained an enlarged new following which has spread globally. I remember the early 2000s when we were in the Championship and it was hard to believe that 'South London is ours'.

Many have their own opinions on who we have rivalries with & who we don't. There's the 2 obvious ones in Brighton & Millwall, which will always been there. Then there's a few minor ones which have been based on a small series of heated matches over a few seasons, but the key to new rivalries IMO is regular matches with some heated exchanges or controversial events.

When I was younger, I thought the Brighton rivalry was odd as we weren't near them geographically & we never played them (as they were in a lower division). However, the Brighton rivalry has reignited in the modern era (last 15-20 years) because of both teams being in the PL (and the battle to get into the league), whereas the Millwall one has fizzled out somewhat. It's mainly geography that fuels any animosity with Millwall. Millwall will always see West Ham as their 'main rivals' in the same way as we see Brighton as ours. The fact that we don't really play Millwall regularly anymore has probably led to Palace fans not really caring about them as much. Certainly newer fans won't have that same dislike for them as older fans.

I'd say there are definitely other teams that have been short term rivals of which we have heated matches against that I would have disliked more than Millwall at the time. Watford is a prime example due to their hatred of Wilf, but since Wilf has left and Watford got relegated, I'm sure neither team cares anymore. Charlton are another team I've always disliked, as their fans have tried to claim that they are the main team in South London (which is laughable), but again, as we don't play them anymore, any heat has probably fizzled out.

Oddly enough, Palace is not a team most fans I speak to dislike. When I moved to Essex a few years ago, I've found most fans are Spurs/Arsenal/West Ham and nearly all say they actually have a soft spot for Palace. We don't really threaten the top teams for trophies or European places. Many comment on us having a great atmosphere in an 'old school' ground and we always seem to have a few exciting players. We don't really have many geographical derbies with local teams as all the PL teams in London have other teams they have history and beef with.

I've found there's a few teams in PL like us in this position like Bournemouth & Brentford.

What are other member's thoughts on this? Would be great to hear from fans from outside the UK's opinions on their experiences from other team's fans.
The clowns hate us and if we play them it is real poison. Worse than any weed games. Horrible atmosphere.
 
My view on rivalries is that unless its a specific location related rivalry (which tend to stick) other rivalries which stem from individuals do come and go.

I developed a dislike for Everton when Lampard was in charge there mainly based around his rejection of a chance to manage us (which may or may not be true) and his shocking bad loser attitude after that 4-0 cup defeat. However recently I had some sympathy for them when Textor was giving it large about the takeover.

Similarly I dislike Man Utd for the arrogance their fans display when we beat them and their assumption that all our players would join them in a heartbeat and we should be grateful they sign them.

My nephew is a diehard Millwall supporter and he absolutely hates us and can't understand why I don't hate them. Having said that some of their fans have said some quite spiteful things about the upcoming game and 'sorting out' Esse so maybe I will grow to hate them!
Other way round but he got his media mates to spin it in his favour as he did with Norwich as well (wanker)
 
Then there's the successful clubs that are always going to be disliked by most fans from other clubs.

It fits into the tribal aspect of football where you should support your family club or local(ish) club (which I subscribe to somewhat). The notion of 'how can you support a club if you've never been to their home ground'. When I was younger, I always got frustrated when speaking to somebody locally about football and they were a Man U fan with no family connection (or they'd claim some tedious link to them). Then the arrogant comments of 'you're a Palace fan! haha'. To which I'd quote the stat that 98% of Man U fans have never been to Manchester or that people who are actually from Manchester supported Man City. It's that 'plastic fan' tag that the more successful clubs will have more of. Especially since the PL has become global. Man U in the 90s, Chelsea in the 00s & Man City now.

I think that's why many Millwall fans also hate Palace. Our current run in the PL has given us a global platform. I remember in the early 2000s, you'd rarely see a Palace shirt around the Bromley area, but now I see them all the time. Which is great, but feeds into that narrative mentioned above that our fans are plastic and only support Palace because we in the PL. It also makes it easier to argue 'South London is ours'. I remember being accused once of being a glory hunter by supporting Palace, which made me laugh because Palace are arguably one of the worst teams to support if you seek 'glory'.
 
Then there's the successful clubs that are always going to be disliked by most fans from other clubs.

It fits into the tribal aspect of football where you should support your family club or local(ish) club (which I subscribe to somewhat). The notion of 'how can you support a club if you've never been to their home ground'. When I was younger, I always got frustrated when speaking to somebody locally about football and they were a Man U fan with no family connection (or they'd claim some tedious link to them). Then the arrogant comments of 'you're a Palace fan! haha'. To which I'd quote the stat that 98% of Man U fans have never been to Manchester or that people who are actually from Manchester supported Man City. It's that 'plastic fan' tag that the more successful clubs will have more of. Especially since the PL has become global. Man U in the 90s, Chelsea in the 00s & Man City now.

I think that's why many Millwall fans also hate Palace. Our current run in the PL has given us a global platform. I remember in the early 2000s, you'd rarely see a Palace shirt around the Bromley area, but now I see them all the time. Which is great, but feeds into that narrative mentioned above that our fans are plastic and only support Palace because we in the PL. It also makes it easier to argue 'South London is ours'. I remember being accused once of being a glory hunter by supporting Palace, which made me laugh because Palace are arguably one of the worst teams to support if you seek 'glory'.
But you was hated by most Millwall fans long before your current PL run.
 
But you was hated by most Millwall fans long before your current PL run.
Indeed, we were bigger rivals when we were in the same division. Recently enough, a lot of Palace fans I meet don't even hate Charlton and Millwall anymore. We just don't play each other that much. And they don't feature in Palace fans' minds. We're dreaming of the cup or Europe or survival.
A lot really dislike West Ham as they seem to never quite get relegated and are often near us in the table. There's obviously Brighton and with them doing well and in the same division now, there's a lot of banter with them. But I'm not seeing the same level of violence and hatred there used to be. Another funny one I've noticed is quite a dislike for Everton.
I think it's because they're obviously sh1t, but keep on beating us. Again, like West Ham and us, arguably could have gone down in a few recent enough seasons.
I can't stand Everton and it's even making me not mind Liverpool as much. Between fans at the games it's very friendly. They don't split us up in the pub and nor do we - in general - except for the constant over policing of Palace games.
 
I can't get too worked up about so called rivalries. Too long in the tooth I guess.

However, there are teams to which I take a strong dislike. More of a personal thing really. I used to spit venom whenever we played Watford when they had a bloke called Hughes playing for them. My hackles rise when I see Everton, so no doubt the air will be blue in the vicinity of my armchair tomorrow. Arsenal have a similar effect on me and it's mostly down to feigning injury and gamesmanship.

I know what you mean, I even find it hard to dislike Charlton these days because my uncles a fan and he’s such a nice bloke, we talk about palace and Charlton a lot together and he took me to my first games in the early 70’s at the valley before I even started to go to palace. And I dodged a bullet really, if he hadn’t moved to Peterborough and my grandad hadn’t died back then I probably would’ve ended up a Charlton fan😳🤢
 
I know what you mean, I even find it hard to dislike Charlton these days because my uncles a fan and he’s such a nice bloke, we talk about palace and Charlton a lot together and he took me to my first games in the early 70’s at the valley before I even started to go to palace. And I dodged a bullet really, if he hadn’t moved to Peterborough and my grandad hadn’t died back then I probably would’ve ended up a Charlton fan😳🤢
Yep, and when I was working during the 70s, my boss was a big Brighton fan and we we had many a jolly trip to the Goldstone. Well, he was my boss after all and I'd hardly want to upset him would I?
 
Man Utd
Liverpool
Everton
Charlton
Brighton

Millwall doesn’t make my top 5 of teams that I dislike as I drink with too many fans who support them and they are generally a decent bunch.

They might make it into the top 10 however, along with West Ham Watford Leeds and Newcastle.
 
Man Utd
Liverpool
Everton
Charlton
Brighton

Millwall doesn’t make my top 5 of teams that I dislike as I drink with too many fans who support them and they are generally a decent bunch.

They might make it into the top 10 however, along with West Ham Watford Leeds and Newcastle.
Tottenham fans are irritating with their sense of entitlement and insistence on their legendary status.
 
When my Dad was living in Sydenham after the war he used to watch whichever team was playing at home that weekend, Palace, Charlton or Millwall. Rivalry wasn’t such a big thing I guess and it didn’t cost an arm and a leg to watch the game.
Palace were in the old third division south so Charlton were his preferred choice. He was mates with Alex Jardine who played for Millwall so they got a visit too.
 
When my Dad was living in Sydenham after the war he used to watch whichever team was playing at home that weekend, Palace, Charlton or Millwall. Rivalry wasn’t such a big thing I guess and it didn’t cost an arm and a leg to watch the game.
Palace were in the old third division south so Charlton were his preferred choice. He was mates with Alex Jardine who played for Millwall so they got a visit too.
Times change, not always for the better. Rivalries should be serious, but friendly. Not all rivalries are friendly however, as we all know.
 

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