well you ARE irish, so it kinda goes with the territory. Did you hear the old adage....if one of your buddies drinks too much he is 'one of the lads' or 'a party animal' or 'a hellraiser' whereas a person you dislike who also drinks too much ? they are an alcoholic.
Anyhoo......what women really want ?
a top-tier man or nothing, it seems. And, women are often content to share a top tier man, rather than have a Beta all for themselves. Elon Musk, Osama Bin Laden, Ian Wright, John McEnroe, Charlie Chaplin, Boris Johnson....all wealthy men, all sired kids from multiple women. However, Some Kings eschew the multiple approaches from available women......Messi.
Also known as, how men rate women's looks vs. how women rate men's looks. This was research published — and subsequently memory-holed — by OkCupid mathematicians.
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