What Happens When Someone Dies

Badger11

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Beckenham
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My father passed away few days ago. I am not looking for sympathy but I am now tackling all the bureaucracy and management of his estate. It can get quite complicated so I thought I would share with you some initial findings which may help if you are ever in this situation.

I know that many people are uncomfortable with death planning but if you don't, you leave a horrible mess for your loved ones, with Rachel From Accounts slathering over the amount of tax she will earn.

Planning:

Financial Planning
There are major changes to IHT coming in 2 years time and not for the good. I urge you to talk to an IFA and see what you can do to minimise your IHT bill.

The Will
I don't care how young you are everybody needs a will. This is a whole other topic but for god's sake do it otherwise you may find the wrong people inheriting.

Power Of Attorney
You also need to give a Power of Attorney for Health and Finances to people you trust. A POA can be done by a lawyer and will probably cost up to £1000. I did my own using the online government service it cost about £160.

My father did his (Financial POA) through a lawyer about 15 years ago, however he did not release it to me until a few weeks before his death. It was too late. Once you have a POA you need to register it with the bank(s) before they will allow you access. It takes a couple of weeks for the banks to act on it and my father died before the process was complete. The POA dies with the person so don't leave it too late.

Probate
When we looked at his estate he had a lot of money with one bank which was over their probate limit. This meant if he died his estate would automatically go the probate route. You would think that the probate limit is the same for all financial institutions but it's not. They can and do set their own limits. They range from 50k to 5k and in the case of Premium Bonds and National Savings zero.

Probate should be avoided if possible as the service has been criticised by the House of Commons as unfit for purpose. It means that you cannot pay out the estate until the court approves it and I am hearing that even simple cases are taking up to a year.

Now if my father had give me the POA earlier I would have transferred some of his savings to a new FI so it would have been below the probate limit. However it never happened so I an now waiting for that bank to confirm we will have to go through probate.

Death Notification
There are many many organisations that need to be informed from banks to utilities to the tax and benefits people. The government has a one stop shop

Tell Us Once

Death Notification Service (Banks and Insurance)

Who Pays The Bills
Once a bank has been notified they will freeze the account. I am still looking at this but so far the advice I have seen says as the Executor of his will I will have to pay any bills and reclaim from the estate once probate has been approved. In my cases I will split the bills with a family member, we are not expecting any large ones, nether the less we have already spent a few hundred on stuff like death certificates, extra funeral expenses. We may have to pay benefits some tax as well as utilities..

So be prepared to pay up front and then have to claim back.

Others
My father planned and paid for his own funeral, even so we have discovered there is still a lot to do especially around the service so the more instructions you leave the better e.g. what songs / prayers do you want.

Age Concern has some good fact sheets on what to do which have been quite handy. You may want to employ a lawyer but that will be expensive and if the will is simple shouldn't be necessary.

That it for now I will update as the process starts to unfold.
 
I can't reply without saying that I am sorry for your loss. I hope you and your family find peace with it.

To give such useful, detailed information in your moment of grief, I am extremely grateful.

My partner has recently lost her mother so some of your points are really appreciated, particularly the 'one-stop shop' government link.

Thank you so much and all the best with sorting everything.
 
Very sorry to learn of the death of your father Badger, my condolences.

You're right about all the paperwork etc that's involved at a time when it's the last thing you think you need. From my experience it all acted as a distraction and helped me cope better when my dad died. Anyway, it seems like you're doing well.

Best, POG.
 
I can't reply without saying that I am sorry for your loss. I hope you and your family find peace with it.

To give such useful, detailed information in your moment of grief, I am extremely grateful.

My partner has recently lost her mother so some of your points are really appreciated, particularly the 'one-stop shop' government link.

Thank you so much and all the best with sorting everything.
Thank you and I am sorry for your loss. I guess this is part of my process.

Age Concern has lots of good advice
 
Thank you and I am sorry for your loss. I guess this is part of my process.

Age Concern has lots of good advice
A horrible period to go through,i hope it all goes well.
 
Sorry for your loss Badger.

And very thoughtful to post the information. A lot of people are completely over-whelmed when someone closer dies, so it is really extremely helpful to get stuff sorted before anyone dies.
People meant to help , can often give poor advice at this time, the stress does that to people.

Badger's advice also cuts income to HMG, so more money kept for the family.
And also is likely to avoid family disputes over The Will and who deserves what 🙂 Don't trust any of your family, nice as they may be. Once someone dies, some of them change into money-grabbing vultures, and the fights will be immense......but for Badger's advice 🙂
 
It speaks to what a wonderful guy you are that, at a time of personal and family loss, you have it in mind to help others who might now or in the future be in a similar situation. Thank you, and condolences from my family to yours.
 
Sorry for your loss. Grief is the price we pay for Love.

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now, to answer the question in the OP. Personal Opinion : its lights out, over, nothingness, oblivion. The same nothingness we were a day before conception.
And there is a certain peace and tranquility that comes with that. No pain. no problems. Just like gone into a very deep sleep. But actually gone.
 
Condolences to you and your family, Badger.

I went through this with the estate of my husband nearly two years ago, so a couple of additional points for you (and others) to look out for.....

- NS&I do require a Grant of Probate or Letters of Administration for any Premium Bond holding over £5,000.

- 'Tell us Once' will also notify HMRC, Civil Service Pension Fund, Local Government Pension Funds, DWP for State Pension

- I did the Probate application online - it's not that difficult, especially if you are used to dealing with figures, but you do need to make sure you get all the information required before you start. It was also, surprisingly, much quicker that I expected, taking about 6-7 weeks from the date of application to receipt of the Grant. However, it was a fairly straight forwards estate to calculate.

- If your dear departed didn't have a pre-paid funeral plan in place, then although the bank account will be frozen, Banks are authorised to pay the funeral director's bill directly to them on presentation, but this will not include any Memorial expenses.

- when settling up the financial affairs, if they were a taxpayer, remember that there may still be tax liabilities due from the date of death to April 4th next. I got stung with an unexpected £500 ish bill this way 15 months later!!!!!

- Don't forget to cancel any and all auto-renew subscriptions i.e. Prime, Online security, Tesco Home delivery etc.

Hope this helps - it's hard trying to make sure you've covered everything they did/had in their lives, not to say time consuming in the initial phase. I found lists really did help to keep track of everything - to do; to find out; done; awaiting response etc.
 
Condolences to you and your family, Badger.

I went through this with the estate of my husband nearly two years ago, so a couple of additional points for you (and others) to look out for.....

- NS&I do require a Grant of Probate or Letters of Administration for any Premium Bond holding over £5,000.

- 'Tell us Once' will also notify HMRC, Civil Service Pension Fund, Local Government Pension Funds, DWP for State Pension

- I did the Probate application online - it's not that difficult, especially if you are used to dealing with figures, but you do need to make sure you get all the information required before you start. It was also, surprisingly, much quicker that I expected, taking about 6-7 weeks from the date of application to receipt of the Grant. However, it was a fairly straight forwards estate to calculate.

- If your dear departed didn't have a pre-paid funeral plan in place, then although the bank account will be frozen, Banks are authorised to pay the funeral director's bill directly to them on presentation, but this will not include any Memorial expenses.

- when settling up the financial affairs, if they were a taxpayer, remember that there may still be tax liabilities due from the date of death to April 4th next. I got stung with an unexpected £500 ish bill this way 15 months later!!!!!

- Don't forget to cancel any and all auto-renew subscriptions i.e. Prime, Online security, Tesco Home delivery etc.

Hope this helps - it's hard trying to make sure you've covered everything they did/had in their lives, not to say time consuming in the initial phase. I found lists really did help to keep track of everything - to do; to find out; done; awaiting response etc.
Thanks Becky some really good information there.
 
Update.

I am currently awaiting from the 2 banks to confirm that my Father's accounts have been frozen and what else they need me to do. In the meantime I have a bit of a problem.

My father has left me and my brother as trustee for a fairly small amount of money probably around 40k. His will states the income is to go to his wife and on her passing the money (capital) is to then be split between the family.

My IFA has told me my father has done me no favours. Trusts are normally for much larger amounts so must banks wont be interested and those that do charge thousands. It would have been better for me if my father had just bequeathed her some money.

I don't wont to open an account in my name as I will then be liable for tax and if I die it will be part of my estate and need to be untangled from that.

So I am looking to open a savings account as trustee for my father and hopefully the charges are not greater than the income.

If anyone has any suggestions I would be grateful, I will be speaking to his 2 banks in the hope they can help.
 
Update.

I am currently awaiting from the 2 banks to confirm that my Father's accounts have been frozen and what else they need me to do. In the meantime I have a bit of a problem.

My father has left me and my brother as trustee for a fairly small amount of money probably around 40k. His will states the income is to go to his wife and on her passing the money (capital) is to then be split between the family.

My IFA has told me my father has done me no favours. Trusts are normally for much larger amounts so must banks wont be interested and those that do charge thousands. It would have been better for me if my father had just bequeathed her some money.

I don't wont to open an account in my name as I will then be liable for tax and if I die it will be part of my estate and need to be untangled from that.

So I am looking to open a savings account as trustee for my father and hopefully the charges are not greater than the income.

If anyone has any suggestions I would be grateful, I will be speaking to his 2 banks in the hope they can help.
If you start getting banks involved it will cost you more than you earn.

I have left funds from my estate to be put in trust for one beneficiary until he is 25 yo. The solicitor assured me that you can (on production of evidence that you are appointed as a Trustee i.e. the Will) open something like a fixed term (higher interest) building society deposit account as a Trustee a/c. As long as you can show that you have tried to make a reasonable income for the beneficiary, without compromising the security of the capital, then you have done your job as a Trustee. You would need to take advice on any tax liabilities arising on the income revenue, though.
 
If you start getting banks involved it will cost you more than you earn.

I have left funds from my estate to be put in trust for one beneficiary until he is 25 yo. The solicitor assured me that you can (on production of evidence that you are appointed as a Trustee i.e. the Will) open something like a fixed term (higher interest) building society deposit account as a Trustee a/c. As long as you can show that you have tried to make a reasonable income for the beneficiary, without compromising the security of the capital, then you have done your job as a Trustee. You would need to take advice on any tax liabilities arising on the income revenue, though.
Thanks Becky
 

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